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"It's too cheap, 'cheesy' and unconventional."
Truth Serum: We live in a world in hyper-drive. The traditional dating models don't work anymore. E-dating is rapidly becoming the new conventional dating. We predict that within a couple of years more than half of all people seeking relationships will be doing so online.

2.

"Online dating is for liars, losers, lonely hearts and lusty old men."
Truth Serum: Stats prove it; the majority of online daters are professional, sincere, educated, above average earning and social romantic and looking for serious relationship. It's the easiest, most practical, time saving way to meet like minded professionals. Ask around, chances are you already know someone who knows someone who has met their match online.

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"I could never meet strangers online, it's not safe!" (Hmmn, and meetinga stranger in a bar is?)
Truth Serum: E-dating is actually safer if you know the e-dating secrets. You can check someone out, stay anonymous, meet in public neutral location and do a background check before they even know your name.

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"People lie and misrepresent themselves. You never know if they are who they say they are?"
Truth Serum: Yes, and people lie in person too. If you know how to ask the right e-dating questions and do proper checks to verify information you're chances of uncovering deception are faster and easier online.

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"It's too impersonal; you can't really get to know somebody online."
Truth Serum: You can read between the lines of stories, poems and listen to songs that make you cry or laugh out loud. It's amazing how much you can feel of someone's heart and spirit in how they write. People often reveal much more online or on the phone with someone they've never met than they do face to face meeting for the first time.

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"I'd be too embarrassed if someone
found out."
Truth Serum: Profiles are anonymous. Besides, if someone you know happened to stumble across your profile and see you online, why would you be embarrassed? After all they are surfing too and are probably even subscribed to the same site.

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"I'm social; I meet people all the time and have no trouble getting a date. "
Truth Serum: Ahh, yes, congratulations Don Juan, so why are you still single? Perhaps you're not meeting the right kind of people. You could narrow your search for the ideal match online and stop wasting time with the wrong person who just happens to be there.

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"The technology is too complicated. I'm not good with computers. I don't have one at home"
Truth Serum: Dating sites make it easy. If you can send an email, and click a button, you can e-date. More and more people who don't even have computers at home are logging on with anonymous accounts from the office on their lunch breaks and after hours at internet café's and local libraries.

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"I don't have time to date."
Truth Serum: This is the only dating method that you can do on your schedule rather than someone else's. You can do it in your spare time. Now wouldn't it be nice to spend your spare time enjoying fun, like-minded company you know you are compatible with.

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"I'm not good at writing."
Truth Serum: If you can speak, you can write well enough to e-date. It's merely a conversation you type. Write the way you speak. Using a grammar or spell checker is easy.